There is no way to sugarcoat this: Sometimes, life sucks. But what you are going through isn't who you are. This is a hard pearl to digest when we find ourselves in the midst of crisis. Sometimes, it's just one darn thing after another. But remember, if you'll pardon the cliché, when life throws you one curve ball after another, it's not an indictment or indication of who you are. The message in Rabbi Harold Kushner's classic titled "When Bad Things Happen to Good People"