My belief in the wisdom of taking leaps is reflected in my many flights of faith and career decisions through the years. I am still taking leaps in the stage of life known as the "Third Act." And while I am a firm believer in the seed of truth in the Zen proverb that says nets will appear or wings will grow, I have also learned that we have a hand in making the most of the changes in our lives. Understanding the psycho-social dynamics of our transition process, including th